Wednesday, March 9, 2011

deadbeats and the women who love them . . .

"deadbeats and the women who love them"

i for the LIFE of me, can't not understand how, my deadbeat sperm donor, has 2 woman, YES 2!!! one he lives with and one he is engaged too (my understanding of the story).

why i am sooooooooooooo shocked is, this man has 4 kids. ranging from the oldest who is just about to turn 18, to the youngest who is i guess 4 or 5 now?

the only one he is ACTIVE with is, the youngest, by default of course, he lives with that one. but the others, to be honest, i doubt he can even tell u where any of those children are right now. no lie!! ask him if he knows what school they go too?  hell ask him if they even WENT to school today? he wouldn't know.

take my son, he has not SEEN or SPOKEN to him since September 2009. he constantly tells people i don't allow him to interact with him, WELL WAIT A DAMN MINUTE, check my phone records. you haven't ATTEMPTED to call in over a year. nowwwwwwwww how the HELL am i stopping you from interacting?  i live EXACTLY 7 minutes away from him, you can't come knock on the door?

Anyways, back to these woman. REGARDLESS of what he's telling them about me, cuz he drags my name thru utter shit, it's still 2 woman before me. are ya'll woman that fucking stupid to believe, we're all PURPOSELY keeping him away from his kids? it's 3 mothers & 3 kids, that he's done this too?!?!? and you still love and accept him? AND ya'll are MOTHERS as well???? how can another MOTHER accept the fact that he's so TRIFLIN to his kids?


he does NOT work (last job i knew he had was in 2004). he does NOT contribute. he does NOT participate as a parent. WTF? and he has not only 1 but 2 women?? 
WTF?!?!?!

PLEASE i am usually good at rationalizing and figuring out things, but this one i honestly just, my brain hurts trying to figure it out. it really does. how the fuck can woman love a deadbeat?



3 comments:

  1. Eff as a woman, as a MOTHER, how can you lay next to a man, and love a man who doesn't love or take care of his extension. Children are him, his DNA, his legacy, his seed..

    I never understood that, if my man didn't take care of his children, I would NOT be with him at all, I don't give a damn, they say watch how a man treats his mother, I say watch how a man treats his children,

    WORTHLESS BI***

    It goes to show you that these women not only have low self esteem, but they don't love him either. Why do I say that? Because to love a man or a woman, is to also love his children, and if I love his children I will make damn sure HE is a part of their lives.

    I am so pissed I could go on and on KMTTTTTTTTTT

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  3. that's what i'm saying. i can't even entertain talking to a man who doesn't do shit for his kids. it's a straight negative. when i meet a man with kids, i ask from jump, where are they? do you see them? do you interact with them.

    truth be told my recently former friend and i, got into it over that. i told him he was just as triflin as my baby daddy because he hadn't seen his kids in A YEAR.

    WTF?!?!?! nothing is more important than ur kids. if u can spend time and money on me, make sure it's spent on your kids first!!!

    THESE WOMAN ARE FRIGGIN TRIFLING!!

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