question: "My friend is back. What I mean by that is, we were together until he moved out of state. I wasn't into long distance at the time so it just kinda left as is. We never actually ended but we didn't continue. Since then I started a long distance relationship. Now my friend is back and is like ok let's pick up where we left off. I'm confused because my relationship with my long distance friend was so "open" because I was single. Now well yea, I'm confused. What you think?"
my response: I honestly can't give you nothing solid. How "long distance" is the relationship? Is it a few hours away and is it a long distance FRIENDSHIP or RELATIONSHIP because as I continue with this response, it just dawned on me, YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP. You did say it was a "long distance relationship" So you talking back to the friend who moved away, would be cheating. Since I don't know for sure, I say define what is going on with your "long distance" thing and move on from there. If it's just a friendship than cool, but if it's an actual relationship, well you've got a whole other problem cuz seems like you are still interested in the ex. If that's so, than you have a decision to make and please, be honest and truthful to both parties.
sidenote: long distance relationships are not easy, but they need to be defined and worked on just like a local relationship. what i mean by defined is: a lot of us have "online" buddies, people who we talk to daily and would probably even link with if they were local. HOWEVER, this doesn't mean it's an actual "relationship". without definition of what's really going on, someone can get hurt or be mislead.
my response: I honestly can't give you nothing solid. How "long distance" is the relationship? Is it a few hours away and is it a long distance FRIENDSHIP or RELATIONSHIP because as I continue with this response, it just dawned on me, YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP. You did say it was a "long distance relationship" So you talking back to the friend who moved away, would be cheating. Since I don't know for sure, I say define what is going on with your "long distance" thing and move on from there. If it's just a friendship than cool, but if it's an actual relationship, well you've got a whole other problem cuz seems like you are still interested in the ex. If that's so, than you have a decision to make and please, be honest and truthful to both parties.
sidenote: long distance relationships are not easy, but they need to be defined and worked on just like a local relationship. what i mean by defined is: a lot of us have "online" buddies, people who we talk to daily and would probably even link with if they were local. HOWEVER, this doesn't mean it's an actual "relationship". without definition of what's really going on, someone can get hurt or be mislead.
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