As the side note says, this blog space is really an area for me to post things that aren't suitable for the promotional and business page. One of the things this blog will be used for is questions I receive.
Here is one asking for advice:
"ok, i know you don't know me like that but i thought this is something that could be answered in general. i thought that you might have experience this too cuz you are a out and about person. my man don't like for me to go where he goes. he is a promoter, and he says that when he out he's working and he has to be a social person. i think he just don't want me to know what he does. what do you think?"
Well to answer "in general" without knowing anything about your relationship, I can understand the "working" part. Sometimes, having your other half there can interfere. Especially (not to say that this is you), if you have an "other half" that gets pissy drunk and acts embarrassing.
HOWEVER . . . when you included "he has to be a social person", sounds like he's a flirt and "in general" he might not want you there so he can do what he does. Without knowing you I can't really say for certain.
Just ask him, nicely, DO NOT ACCUSE HIM, just nicely in a conversation probe a bit. Is if the way I act when I'm out? Is it because of the lack of attention I will receive? Is it because you're a flirt? Only you know how you act and how your relationship is, so base your questions from that.
Hope this helps.
Here is one asking for advice:
"ok, i know you don't know me like that but i thought this is something that could be answered in general. i thought that you might have experience this too cuz you are a out and about person. my man don't like for me to go where he goes. he is a promoter, and he says that when he out he's working and he has to be a social person. i think he just don't want me to know what he does. what do you think?"
Well to answer "in general" without knowing anything about your relationship, I can understand the "working" part. Sometimes, having your other half there can interfere. Especially (not to say that this is you), if you have an "other half" that gets pissy drunk and acts embarrassing.
HOWEVER . . . when you included "he has to be a social person", sounds like he's a flirt and "in general" he might not want you there so he can do what he does. Without knowing you I can't really say for certain.
Just ask him, nicely, DO NOT ACCUSE HIM, just nicely in a conversation probe a bit. Is if the way I act when I'm out? Is it because of the lack of attention I will receive? Is it because you're a flirt? Only you know how you act and how your relationship is, so base your questions from that.
Hope this helps.
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